Monday, 6 December 2010

Reflections.....


Well, today is the day:) The 40th birthday has arrived and nope, I don't feel any different;)) Not that I expected to, lol! Today though has been lovely. I've managed to talk to all my family and friends, received lots of lovely thoughtful gifts and messages and pretty much gone through today on a bit of high:) My balloon is bobbing around in the living room making me smile when I look up at it and as it's helium, it will be around for a while yet as a happy reminder.

But although I didn't intend to, you do start to take stock and think just what have I been doing in those 40 years? 40 years, blimey! When did it creep up to that?? I'd like to think I'm focusing on enjoying life in the now so I wasn't counting:)) But there do seem to be bits that just flew by as chunks of years!

All this introspection has made me hunt out old photographs. I'm not very good at keeping a photographic record of myself as I don't think I photograph well most days but as I've been looking back I realise I really should have been documenting those younger days - when I looked my best!!! But then, when I'm about 80, I'll probably wish I took some photos of me at 40 so I could see me when I was 'young':)) So everything in perspective. Also, I find it interesting to see my parents and their old photographs so I really should be keeping a record for posterity myself.

Me at 21, (on the right) celebrating in the pub at art school

So, a yearly birthday photo? Mmmm, wait till I wash my hair, and slap some make-up on:) I was also thinking how I wish I had written thoughts down at the time - what was that girl of 21 thinking in that photo? Was she happy? Was she excited, nervous, confident? Funny how  you can look more relaxed when it's someone you feel comfortable with taking the photo. The facial expressions look more genuine and less forced. OR maybe that's just the drink:)) Don't let the orange juice fool you, I'm sure there was vodka involved somewhere!!

I was never one for diaries or journals when I was young - "woke up, got dressed,  had breakfast, ....." same old, same old:) Although I am aware of the irony now I keep a blog which is essentially a journal. Although I do usually stick to creative endeavours in it but that's probably because I don't want to bore you with the trivia of my day - unless its eye candy trivia like lovely cakes or yummy new yarn:)

But because I don't write it here either, then there is no history to these photos, no context to put them in other than the year and names on the back, and my faulty memory. I don't necessarily want to save everything to posterity but maybe a little background detail should be written: where was I, was it a good day, what age was I, what dreams or aspirations did I have? - as by the time I'm 80, I probably won't remember anything except the names of everyone I went to school with when I was 4:))) Sounds pretty much like a personal diary to me. Maybe I've finally grown into diary writing  - as long as I don't have to write it every day - still suck at that as you probably know already:)

So, in the spirit of recording EVENTS, here is some lovely birthday cake eye candy for you to keep you going till I wash my hair and take 40 million photos till I get one I like:)


Thank you everyone for all my lovely birthday wishes and presents - now I'm off to have a piece of cake;))


10 comments:

  1. HAPPY Birthday!!.....glad you had a great day and I hope the next 40 go just as well. HUH! 40...you're still SO young...and take it from someone who is way older.....it just gets better, just like they say!! It really does!
    Take care Elaine...and have another piece of cake..
    Marilyn
    :) x ♥

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  2. Still as gorgeous, thoughtful, creative, caring, imaginative and downright head turning as when I first met you xxxxx

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  3. Thank you everyone:)) Glad to hear it just gets better from here, Marilyn:)) xxx

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  4. 15 years this January John - and don't you have a way with words:)) xxx

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  5. Happy Happy Birthday!!

    Enjoy your fabulous cake! x

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  6. happiest of birthdays to a beautiful, 40 year old girl. :)

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  7. :)) Thank you all! One big cake down, one little one to go:) - not all by myself I hasten to add!

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  8. hi birthday girl ! I was born in 1970 too, but some 6 months ahead of you... to me this 4 still feels odd. how did time fly by so quickly and I didn't realized that ?!!!
    And I see how the yummy cookie recipe came to me this weekend... Marylin :)
    thank you again xx

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